The number one question my clients ask me is "When will I find the one?" Of course the situations and circumstances vary among each reading, but at the core, the message they receive is the same.
Like my mother always used to say, "You need to love yourself before anyone else can love you." It wasn't until recently that I really understood what that meant. I realize the idea of finding the one person out of billions that is truly made for you can seem so daunting, I mean, what are the odds you will actually find the one? And if you do find him, how do you know he is the one?
The solution is really simple... You will never find your soulmate if you don't accept yourself completely as you are. You need to stop hiding your spirit in the shadows and let her shine out! I know this can be a scary thought, you will open yourself up to possible judgement and ridicule, but you also open yourself to receive the deepest love imaginable. Other's judgements of you are not a reflection of you, but rather a reflection of them. Besides, you don't want that negativity around you so release them from you life, they are not a true friend, and that's OK! You will not be friends with everyone, just as not everyone in the world will be friends with you. Despite today's fad of maxing out your friends list on Facebook, it's really about quality of true friends... not quantity... Please don't confuse this advise to mean not to be friendly towards everyone, because how you treat others is a direct reflection of you.
Now that you have embraced your truest self, it's time to have fun! Stop stressing and overthinking! Get out of your head and just live your life passionately, for you and no one else! (Don't do anything illegal or unethical please... I better not hear "but Danica said I should!" NO!) Trust me, your other half will be waiting for you when you least expect him. Remember he loves you for you and complements you, which means... the things you like, he will like too. It may not be exactly in the same capacity or 100% all the things you like (don't forget you are both individuals and it is healthy for each of you to have some separate interests) but, for example, if you love concerts, maybe he plays in a band. Or if you enjoy going to the beach, maybe he is that steamy lifeguard over there!
The last step is to remember that this one of a kind unconditional love is a two way street. You also need to love him for who he is, flaws and all. Empower him as he empowers you. And thank him for all he is and bringing his light into your life!
∞ Danica Simone ∞
Check out the video below, "#ImJustSayin" by Hpnotic718 for the soundtrack to this post. Enjoy!